Fatty Giwa

Morning of Eid 2025

This morning, when I told Khalil it was Eid, his first words melted my heart: "Daddy, Izma, and Hibba go to the airport!" He meant, "Let's g…

Eid Day 2025

Eid day came with an extra gift for me in form of a milestone achievement 😌😌 I was in the sitting room tired as I had just gotten home from where the ram was…

Khaleel met his friend at a Park

This past Saturday, at the park, my son Khalil and I had a playdate with a new friend and their child on the spectrum. But what truly stole the show was an i…

Khalil dressed in Chad attire for African Day

Today is Africa Day, and Khalil's class was required to dress up in a Chad 🇹🇩 costume.  I did my research and found what worked perfectly.  I didn't…

He agreed to change his cap this morning—no fuss, no tantrum! I had been preparing him in advance, showing him how dirty the previous cap was and explaining …

This has been the most active and fun of my physical life in a long time.

My virtual world has been the most exciting part of my life living here until lately. I can’t even keep up with the constant invitations and opportunities to…

Masjid al-Quba: A Timeless Symbol of Faith and Unity

Masjid al-Quba, the first mosque built by Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) in Medina, holds a special place in Islamic history. Its significance goes beyon…

Ramadan Day 7: Alhamdulillah for the unwavering love Allah has placed in my heart for my child

“Surely, In gratitude we find growth and improvement in ourselves and our children” Action steps: Find your Alhamdulillah through this reflection prompt 😇 For…

Ramadan Day 6: Alhamdulillah for the sensory experiences that allows my child to connect with the world

“Surely, In gratitude we find growth and improvement in ourselves and our children” Action steps: identify your child’s sensory needs and them down. Describe t…

Ramadan Day 5: Alhamdulillah for the opportunity to learn and grow through my child’s journey

"Surely, In gratitude, we find growth and improvement in ourselves and our children.” Action steps: Reflect on moments your child made you laugh or did …

Ramadan Day 4: Alhamdulillah for the moment of joy and laughter my child brings.

Action steps: Reflect on moments your child made you laugh or did something that brought you joy. Write them down in a journal or share them with us under th…

Ramadan Day 3: Alhamdulillah for everyone of you.

Supportive families and friends—followers and my strong community of parents with children on the autism spectrum/SN parents. "Surely, In gratitude, we …

Ramadan Day 2. Alhamdulillah for the patience and resilience that Allah has given me as a parent 😇

The number one skill every parent with a child with special needs MUST learn on their journey is PATIENCE (Sabr) AND RESILIENCE. Action Steps: Ponder on the ti…

Dear Muslim Autism Moms

Ramadan Mubarak to every one of us! As we embark on this blessed month, I pray that this Ramadan brings us answers to our prayers and strengthens our hearts.  …

Ramadan Day 1: Alhamdulillah for the unique strengths and Talents Allah has placed in my child

Action Steps: Identity the strengths and unique qualities of your child.  Ponder on these strengths and journal them in a journal 😌 Alhamdulillah for his abil…

Embracing Uniqueness

Today was the school carnival, and the kids were excited as everyone arrived dressed as their favorite characters. As I dropped off Mini-me, I couldn't hel…

Unexpected Kindness: A gesture that made a world of difference

Last Sunday morning, I received an unexpected call from the wonderful caretaker of our apartment in Mindelo Island (you might remember her from my January revi…

Trusting the Journey: Finding Clarity in Allah's Plan

I find it remarkable how Allah sends challenges my way, to guide me towards clarity and steer me away from situations that might not be in my best interest.  A…

A Bus Ride Experience

Sometime in early 2020. I was heavily pregnant and on a bus in New York, on our way for some hospital appointment that particular day. Myself and my son Khalil…

Tantrums for task avoidance

Tantrums for task avoidance in autism refers to a situation where an autistic individual throws a tantrum as a way to escape or avoid completing a task, often…